Navigating Divorce with Grit & Grace

Hey there, Mindful Warriors! 🌟

In our latest episode, we dive deep into the raw, unfiltered world of divorce. Will, John, and special guest David Valadez share their personal journeys, offering insights that are as real as they are enlightening.

Here are the top takeaways:

1. Check Your Emotional Baggage at the Door

Both Jon and David highlight the importance of dealing with past emotional baggage before diving into a new relationship. Whether it's a heartbreak or unresolved issues from childhood, carrying this weight can doom a marriage from the start.
So, unpack those bags, demons!

2. The Kids Aren't Alright (If You Aren't)

Staying in a toxic relationship "for the kids" might do more harm than good. Kids are perceptive little beings and can sense when things are off. Prioritize your happiness and well-being to create a healthier environment for everyone involved. If you fix it, fix it. If its beyond repair then it time to go.

3. Societal Expectations? Meh.

Jon and David both fell into the trap of societal expectations—get married, have kids, live happily ever after. Spoiler alert: Life doesn't always follow a script. Break free from the societal checklist and live life on your terms.

4. The Grieving Process is Real

Divorce isn't just a legal separation; it's an emotional rollercoaster. From feeling like a failure to finally reaching acceptance. It's crucial to allow yourself time to grieve and process these emotions. And hey, it's okay to lean on friends and family during this time too. Make that call! Especially you men reading. We bet you will be suprised how welcome your call will be.

5. Lawyer Up, But Be Smart

Legal battles can drain your wallet AND your spirit. While it's essential to protect your interests, sometimes it's better to compromise and save yourself the financial and emotional toll. Half of nothing is still nothing, right?